Just to let you know what happened to me after we left training in 1966.

When we were preparing to leave RAF Cosford I applied for North of England, South of Scotland, RAF Boulmer and Acklington as postings. Yes, you’ve guessed it, I was posted to RAF High Wycombe, HQBC, in Buckinghamshire. It turned out to be a great posting as it was Swinging Sixties and entering the Flower Power era. I had a great time but started to get a bit fed up toward the end of a two year Key Personnel Screening stint.
I did not go abroad until July 1968 when I went to RAF Masirah. I was in Masirah for the customary 13 month tour with a month at home in the middle. I got to thinking about where to go next and Singapore was preparing to close down. I thought it would be my last chance to get to the Far East so I applied to extend my tour to Hong Kong or Singapore.
was accepted and I arrived at RAF Seletar in October 1969 (The numbers don’t add up for the time I spent in Masirah but that is another story!).
After Masirah, Seletar was like being transported to another planet and I loved it. The place is full of fantastic times, smells, food, beer and mates. Anyone heard of John ‘Wink’ Allington? John and I were great friends and sailed and drank together for the two years I was there.
While in Singapore three of us took the train to Butterworth, in Malaysia, and caught the ferry across to Penang for a couple of weeks vacation. Many stories to tell of the train journey and times in Georgetown but I would like to keep them for a reunion. Suffice to say the train journey involves lots of Merrydown Cider after starting the day with a brewery trip to Anchor and the New Wah Seng ‘hotel’ figures in the Penang stories.
Left Singapore, after moving accommodation blocks a couple of time to let the Singapore Armed Forces take over the camp and closing down Seletar Commcen. This was in February 1971 and I was on my way to RAF Boddington, with the domestic site at RAF Innsworth in Gloucester. I was there until I got posted to RAF Luqa in September 1972. I was there at the same time as Gerry Linstead, the WebMaster for the 303rd, but while he was working on the Canberra’s while I was guarding them, in the rain, after El Fatah threats!
The relay centre was temporarily in the terminal commcen with re-perfs on trestle tables.We just could not cope at times and whole bunches of tapes of Routine messages would go into the bin!

It was quite a relief when the refurbished relay centre opened at Siggiewi. The reason for this was, of course, I arrived in Malta as we were returning after being kicked out first time.
Had a fantastic time in Malta during which I did a lot of sailing and even more drinking. Favourite haunt was the ‘Fog Lamp’ in Burzibugga but I had a flat in Marsascala at the end of the bay. Local bar in Marsascala was the ‘Coxswains Cabin’, at that time run by an Englishman and his ex Television Toppers wife.
During my time in Malta I went out with ‘Louise’, a beautiful Maltese girl who I am sure was my soulmate. I believe we were very much in love, we never argued in the 6 months we dated but I never met her family in all of that time. I don’t know why I was so frightened to propose but I didn’t and I regretted it after we broke up. I will never know how different my life might have been but I do know we would have been very happy. On the other hand I have no regrets about the direction my life took after this but it is something that has stayed with me. You only have one life and you need to try to make the right decisions as you go through it as you don’t get a second chance.
I found myself back in Boddington again early 1974 on promotion to Corporal. This time I met my wife, Marlane, in December 1974 and got married in May 1975. Anyone know Sgt Ziggy Zegveld? Well, he is my father-in-law, sadly he died 14 February 2004. He was a great bloke to have as a father-in-law and a great friend.

Two weeks after getting married I was in Gan and did more sailing and drinking and even had a trip to Sri Lanka to sail against the British High Commission. There was also a sailing trip to Cyprus for the NEAF championships. I never did a tour of Cyprus but it looked great for the four days I was there. 1976 and, after closing down the Termite Commcen in Gan, I was posted to RAF Rudloe Manor and Marlane and I fell in love with the village of Colerne and Bath itself. That was really when our married life began and it was nice to be
away from everyone to get to know each other. We have not done too badly, 34 years later (writing in 2009) we are still going strong.
While at Rudloe Manor we discussed where we should think about settling down because I was due out in November 1978. I applied for last tour of duty to Boddington and we now live in Gloucester.
In November 1977 my son, Daniel was born. He is a fine man who is a schoolteacher in Birmingham after getting a BA Hons in Art and Design and Combined Studies and then, after working for an Internet Hosting company in Gloucester, a postgraduate degree in education.
All my life I have been around Uncles who have been lorry drivers and it is something I always wanted to do so, just before I met Marlane I had taken three weeks vacation and spent it on an HGV driving course. It was fantastic and at the end of my 12 years I did my resettlement working for a metal forming company in Cheltenham shunting trailers into the loading bay, sheeting them up and taking them out to the yard for the drivers to take out to customer sites for delivery. I got really great at reversing 40-foot trailers! I did a year and a half with ‘Roadline’ night trunk driving forty footers between Gloucester – Reading, Manchester, Northampton and a couple of trips to Muswell Hill. My main route was to Reading and back; little did I know that I would do this route a great deal more in the future when I worked in Maidenhead and lived in Gloucester! After 18 months I realised that I was never going to get anywhere lorry driving, not much in the way of promotion, like the RAF really!
Matters were taken out of my hands with redundancy. As I had been there less than 2 years I got no redundancy package at all but I was lucky enough to walk out of Roadline on the Friday and into Rank Xerox computer department on the Monday. I was really lucky as this got me back into a computer environment, which is what communications is all about now anyway.
My three-month temporary contract with Ranks, in Mitcheldean Forest of Dean, stretched to six months. I had already been for an interview, and been accepted, for a job with Lockheed Aircraft in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, to teach the Saudi Air Force on the ADX6400 message switching system, same as the one at Boddington.
I spent two years on a bachelor contract but Lockheed would not entertain accompanied
status. Three months from the end of my Lockheed contract I was offered a position with a company called Haji Abdullah Alireza who had a communications company called GENTEC. They had a contract to install and maintain the worldwide comms for the Saudi Ministry of Foreign Affairs. I accepted and spent 7 weeks in San Francisco with ROLM Corporation to learn installation and maintenance of the ROLM CBX PABX systems, 1 week at Chloride in Eastleigh for the power systems and 4 weeks at Marconi in Chelmsford to learn the ins and outs of their message switching system. The seven weeks in San Francisco were unforgettable and it has to be my favourite city in the world.
I spent a bit longer in Chelmsford to carry out factory testing as I was the one in the company with the message switching experience. July 1984 saw me back in Saudi but Jeddah this time. I looked after the Ministry, with Philippino engineers, until the new Ministry was opened in Riyadh. My wife and Daniel joined me in September 1984. We had a great time in Jeddah and made some great friends of the Americans on the compound where we lived. We would go to Rabigh at the weekend to a deserted beach with fantastic seabed and coral.Daniel was 7 at this time and was at the Continental School in Jeddah
when Marlane became pregnant. Johanna (pronounced with a Y as it is from the Dutch) was born in October 1985. A month later Marlane was pregnant again, God knows how but the Saudi’s I worked with were very impressed! During this pregnancy the Project Manager in Riyadh left the company to retire and the Ministry asked for me to go to Riyadh to run the maintenance project and ensure the Message Switch kept going……. We moved to a magnificent house (Photo left of the swimming pool) in Riyadh and Julia was born in August 1986. So there is 2 months in
the year when my daughters are the same age. Picture on the left is an aerial photograph of the Ministry.
Daniel sat the common entrance exam in Riyadh and got a place at a Grammar school in Gloucester so we thought it was time to go home. With Daniel at his grandparents to start school in September I tendered my resignation and we left in November 1989 to return to the UK.
No job to come home to so it was a bit of a gamble. We had not saved any money but had a great six years of family life in Saudi.Marlane spotted an advertisement in the Daily Mail and I applied for a job as a Technical Instructor with Nortel Networks. I was lucky enough to be offered the job and started in January 1990.
I spent the next 8 years with training and travelled to do on site training at our distribution channels in Cairo (3 times, photo on the left), Damascus, Beirut, Dubai, Abu Dhabi (twice), Stockholm, Munich, Paris, Moscow, Comsomolsk (Ukraine), other various locations around Europe and attended a weeks training myself in Dallas.I moved to a new position in December 1998 and really enjoyed it until January 2008 when a new director and manager changed the role, none of use of really knew what we were supposed to be doing for just over a year when we were made redundant!
At various time I had looked after Turkey (photo on the left), Saudi Arabia, Greece, Cyprus, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Jersey, BT, and a few other companies in the UK. I had built up a great relationship with the people in these companies and often travelled to Istanbul, Athens, Nicosia etc. to discuss business. Like all Telecommunications companies Nortel had been through a bad patch with a reduction in the workforce from 100,000 to 35,000 worldwide, and then further reductions until the redundancies and eventually being sold off to Avaya. I had worked at home for about 9 years until March 2009 so that was another huge benefit of the job.
We, the family, all Travelled to Tasmania in January 2002 for our nieces wedding. Long trip but it was great to fly into Singapore again after 30 years even if it was only for a couple of hours.
What Next? -
Hoping to be able to manage some travel. Rawalpindi to find the grave of my half uncle who died while serving in Peshawar in 1932. I want to drive to Malta, might get the ferry from Sicily or the car will get wet and general trips, including the UK-Copet journey described in ‘Goldfinger’ plus going around the continent in my MX-5 (photo left) and maybe other travel depending on finances!
In the meantime (while my mother lives with us and restricts travel plans!) I’ve got a little project on the go but that has been a bit slow in taking off due to garage keeps getting filled in with childrens stuff – no, not toys, as they are grown up now it’s furniture!
http://www.themotorbikeforum.co.uk/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=21732
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http://s572.photobucket.com/albums/ss162/djrose007/Suzuki%20GSX750F%20Rebuild/
July 2009 -
Don’t know what it is about older men but machinery seems to creep into our lives as the hair on the head starts to disappear and the hair nose grows longer.
Apart from hankering after doing up the motorbike I really fancied a motor mower. I managed to get one off ‘Freecycle’, yes it’s absolutely free, just got to pick things up. Guy said it’s in a bit of a state but should work.
It did need a lot of cleaning up, grass was about 2 inches thick inside the drum where the blades go around. Cleaned it up, removed the blades and sharpened them, topped up with some petrol, checked the oil and pulled the cord – chug Chug CHug CHUg CHUG VROOOOMMMM – it burst into life with a pall of smoke from the muffler (Exhaust really but it’s an American make!). Doesn’t smoke now that it’s been run a couple of times and cuts the lawn a treat. Doesn’t have a grass box but it does mulch the grass so just need to brush the paths down afterwards. Chuffed to bits, and it was free !!!!!!
If you are interested in Freecycle here’s the link for the UK groups. If you just search for ‘Freecycle’ be careful not to sign up for the one in Tucson, which is what I did at first!
Here’s the link to find your local one.
http://www.uk.freecycle.org/
April I sent my biography off to a publishers to see what they thought and if they would consider publishing it.
I had word in early July that it has gone to a second reader so not sure if that means it’s so bad they need to confirm it’s so bad, or it’s not bad and the second reader is just to get more opinion and what to do with it. It did say that it could take about 9 months for anything to happen so I’ll just have to be patient and see what they come back to me with. I’ve opted for a shared publication to keep the costs down, but I’ve still no idea how much this can cost.
January 2010 put this in here, out of chronological order but relevant to the book subject. I was contacted by the publisher and they asked if I could make it more specific to the RAF, rather than a biography, and cut it down from 157,000 words to 60-100,000 words. Working on that on and off and will retitle it to ‘Travels of an RAF Sand Dancer’.
August 2009 -
Not touched the motorbike project since that post in May 09! No time to turn around, there always seems to be something to do. Goodness knows how I ever found time to work, although in the last year of my employment I did seem to do a lot of dog walking, mowing of lawns etc. Just totally lost interest as it was obvious the company, or at least the organisation I worked in, was being run down.
Mum is still with us, seems a bit more frail at times and then appears to have a burst of energy and is almost her old self again! We have managed to get more help from the SS (Social Services, I know what you were thinking). Someone comes in to give her a bath 3 evenings a week and another lady comes and sits on a Monday evening so we can go to Dog Training school together. It’s not a lot but it means a great deal just to be able to get out for a couple of hours one evening a week.
No hope of fulfilling any travel dreams yet but I have been asked if I want to stand as a councillor for the Liberal Democrats in Gloucester (Hucclecote ward). Not sure that I want to commit myself to the time required to be a councillor although I would like to think I could contribute a lot to the work.
Got the Stonehouse Dog Training Club obedience championship show on 31 August (Bank Holiday) where I will again be car park steward. Will take Jonty along this year (see left), and a jacket as it was quite chilly in 2008 when I did it.
0630 start so Mother-in-Law (Betty) will stay overnight to look after my Mother during the Bank Holiday as we won’t be back until about 19:00.
25 August – Julia’s birthday. First time she’s spent it away from home and is a bit miserable. Cheered up in the evening when she managed to get onto Facebook and saw all the happy birthday messages people had left her.
She is buying herself a new car, Ford Fiesta Zetec in pinky / purpley colour. She’s over the moon and picks it up on Thursday 27th.
02 September
After being at the Stonehouse Dog Training Club (SDTC), near Stroud, for the past 2 years I thought it might be nice to build a website for them. Only problem with this is that I don’t know how to do it!
So, I’ve signed up for a 6 week evening course at Gloucestershire University to learn the basics. It’s only one evening a week so I’m not going to be an expert at the end but should know where to start. Course is end of October to beginning of December, what’s the betting that I’ll be the oldest in the class! I’ll let you know when it starts.
I found Weebly.com and have gone mad on the website building -http://stonehouse-dtc.weebly.com/ http://raf-luqa.weebly.com/http://saudi-ex-pats.weebly.com/ http://scruffys-dog-grooming.weebly.com/
20 October 2009
Life has been trundling along but a huge event last week was Julia’s passing out parade from the Defence Police College Southwick Park. Friday 16 October saw me up at 0515 to get things ready to leave at 0700 to travel to Southwick Park with Marlane and Betty (Mother-in-Law).

Julia had been ill for a few days and was unable to take part in the parade. She sat at the side of the reviewing officers podium and was called up to receive her Police hat and warrant card after the rest of the parade had received theirs. She was still quite wobbly on her feet but Cpl Duffy and the reveiwing officer steadied her and were very kind.
Photographs are HERE
Note sent to Friends 20 December 2010:
I’m still enjoying retirement and I don’t know how I would have coped over the past few weeks if I had been working, it would certainly have made life difficult for others.
Feel free to pass this on to others that may still remember me from my distant past when I worked for a living.
After a euphoric start to the year, with our youngest daughters wedding in March, the year trundled on and on with a great summer apart from my Mothers’ deterioration in her dementia problems, incontinence (but less said the better about that bit) and the general day to day care of her.
On 3 November she fell at the day centre she attends dislocating her shoulder and breaking her leg where the pin of her old hip replacement is located in the top of the femur. She was in Gloucestershire Royal Hospital and prescribed 6 weeks bed rest. This wasn’t too bad as visiting only meant a 5 minute bus ride and 10 minute walk to the hospital. As they apparently do not have facilities to handle this sort of care anywhere in Gloucester city she was moved, after a few days only, to Moreton in Marsh district hospital which is 30 miles and an hours drive away through the Cotswolds (Andoversford – Bourton on the Water – Stow on the Wold), a nice drive once in a while but not every day!
We kept asking when she can be moved closer to Gloucester and, after 3 weeks, I got fed up and contacted PALS (Patient Advice and Liaison Services) and she was moved the same day, some coincidence I thought!.
So now she is in Stroud, which is only 10 miles away. On the 21 December, tomorrow, they will try to get her out of bed after an x-ray to check on the broken femur. We’ll see what the care assessment is but she is not going into a ‘nursing home’. We’ve seen a couple of residential care homes and there is no certainly no ‘care’ in care homes
When I am with her on some days I’m sure she has no idea who I am, and I’m not even sure she knows I am there. Other days she’s been quite bright, unintelligible but a bit more aware of her surroundings.
Needless to say we are not looking forward to 2011!
In the meantime, a few weeks ago in Birmingham, our Grandson (3 year old Lennon) had a cold and when he seemed to be getting over it he went back to nursery school. He caught another virus at school and both of the virus’s joined forces. It was too much for his immune system to handle. He started to laze around, which he never did normally, but when he started to fall over he was taken to the doctor who sent him straight to Good Hope hospital in Sutton Coldfield. The viruses attacked his nervous and immune systems, the muscles all over his body swelled so he looked like a swollen sausage and it was painful for him to try to stand at all or even to be picked up.
They are pretty sure it is
Guillain-Barre syndrome the link gives information about what it is and what it does. So he was in both Good Hope and Birmingham Childrens Hospital for 3 weeks since the end of November and we’ve been travelling every day apart from 3 days when we had things we had to be at home for.
Marlane stays with Lennon while I have been taking Joanne, our Daughter in Law, home so she can have a shower, change, pick up Dhylan, our other grandson, from school and have 2 or 3 hours break and then Daniel brought her back to the hospital when he finished work. Marlane even spent 2 nights at the hospital with Lennon to give them a chance to be together with Dhylan for a couple of nights. I then pick her up at lunchtime the next day. This is a 3 hour round trip plus the 2-4 hours spent there so it takes the whole day. He had MRI scans, Heart Scans, Daily blood tests apart from the normal observations hourly night and day. When he was sedated for his MRI scan his heart rate dropped and he stopped breathing. He was rushed to emergency and resuscitated and he did have his MRI scan later in the day.
While we were there last Tuesday I went to Burton on Trent to pick up a childs wheelchair that Marlane had found on ebay Monday night. It’s great and is one of the main items that allowed him to be discharged. It will probably be at least 3 months before he is walking again (fingers crossed that he does) but at least he is improving. Another consequence of his illness is that his voice has changed a lot, it is higher and sounds mostly like he is talking underwater. I think it is because of the affect the virus had on his muscles, including his throat.
He has 4 x daily physiotherapy exercises to do, plus swimming, and still has to visit the hospital for heart and blood tests and will be on medication for some time yet as he has to come off the steroids slowly.
After he was discharged last Tuesday and we got back from Birmingham around 1900 after getting up at 0500 for an early start so that Joanne could go to Dhylans nativity play. I was literally falling asleep when I was driving back home but we did make it safely! We went very early morning because neither her mother or sister (who live around the corner from the school and 15 minutes from the hospital) would go to the hospital for her because they wanted to see the nativity play themselves, can’t believe they would put themselves above his mother for seeing him in his play!
We are both exhausted and although it has been great to see so much of Lennon it is good that he was allowed home after 3 weeks in hospital. One consequence of my Mum being in hospital is that it has enabled us to have the time to do all of this otherwise we’d have had to be at home for my Mum.
Daniel is a school teacher so now has a few days off for Christmas and they are all coming down today to visit and have dinner with us so we are looking forward to that.
Hope your families are all well and that you have a lovely Christmas with them. Hope all goes well in 2011 but I’ve stopped doing that ‘Happy New Year’ stuff because we have no control at all on what is going to happen so I’ll just send my best wishes that nothing catastrophic happens!